Dilators

Some clinics and surgeons may provide you with dilators. Before you go and buy your own, check with your surgeon or clinic to see if they provide them.
Dr Hart gives you a “Soul Source GRS Pelvic Trainer - Size #P1” (⅞ in / 9 in) and the “Soul Source Silicone Pelvic Trainers - Small Set” (from ½ in / 2 ½ in to 1 in / 4 in).
- While this gives you a start, it is not (in my opinion) adequate for the future if you want to use your vagina.

I saw the Soul Source “GRS Pelvic Trainers” recommended quite often online, and bought the full set from the #P2 size, up to size #4.
- I do not regret this expense, 292 USD (450 AUD) with 56 USD (86 AUD) shipping.

I personally recommend the “GRS Pelvic Trainers” set of dilators, and preferred the rigid plastic over silicone dilators. Especially with their curved shape as I feel it better conforms to the internal structure.
- Another reason I bought these was that with these dilators you can also work on vaginal depth at the same time as girth.
  - With the initial set you can only do this with the #P1, this was uncomfortable due to its small diameter at the tip.
- With this set I have a maximum of ~6.7 inches of vaginal depth and girth stretching to the 1.5 inch diameter of the #4 dilator.
- I did not like the silicone dilators
  - I found them harder to clean and more “grabby” (this grabbiness may be due to the stitches interaction with the dilators not the silicone itself)
  - They pick up dust easier
  - You can’t work on vaginal depth significantly

Maddy did not share my experience, and instead recommends the silicone variety. (She has only used the initial set Dr Hart provides).
- She remarks that especially in the early days it was easy to hurt herself with the #P1 as it was quite rigid, and appreciated the provided silicone “Small Set” much more.
  - This may be due to the P#1’s small diameter coming to a relatively sharp point, I did not experience this with the larger iterations of the GRS Pelvic Trainer dilator set.
- She was content with the provided set, and is happy with general girth. She finds this girth adequate for masturbation, but has not pursued penetrative sex.

Bien, an Australian company
- Dilators range from 6.5cm (2.56in) length and 1.2cm (0.47in) diameter up to 15cm (5.91in) and 3.72cm (1.46in) diameter.
- Found through my own research, I was looking for a larger dilator than the #4 Soul Source. I tried Bien’s size 8 but it was barely any larger as I think although it is physically larger, it has elasticity where the plastic ones don’t.
- It annoys me that they indent their brand name on the side.

VWELL, United States shipping only
- Dilators range from 4.15in length and 0.42in diameter up to 6.85 in and 1.50in diameter.
- If I was in the US (or had a friend there) and I wanted silicone dilators, I would buy these.
- Cheaper than Soul Source, Bien, and intimate rose dilators, and comes with 10 incrimental sizes (SS, Bien, & IR have 8)

Soul source (silcone)
- Dilators range from 2.5in length and 0.5in diameter up to 6 in and 1.625in diameter.

Intimate Rose
- Dilators range from 2.83in length and 0.45in diameter up to 6.5 in and 1.57in diameter.
- There is one extra dilator, the size 9 which is 1.61/1.75in diameter and 7.52in long.

For larger dilators, VWELL has the SuperFit XL Silicone Wand Set . -This set has three dilators:
- 1.7/1.8in diameter and 7.1in length
- 1.9/2in diameter and 7.4in length
- 2.2/2.3in diameter and 7.6in length

Or, failing those two options, there are a wide variety of dildos available online.
- If you have any specific recommendations, please let me know and I will add them here.